Tips to Quieting the "Shoulds"

Mar 14, 2022
quiet the shoulds - Cyrina Talbott

We kind of live in the best of times and the worst of times. We have a ton of freedoms that generations before us didn’t get. If you were a woman you were home with kids. If you were a man, you would do what your dad did. You’d live close to home.

Now we can do anything which is amazing and maddening! If at any moment I can do whatever I want, work how I want, go where I want, then what the hell do I do? Then, if we look at others, we’ll get even more ideas that maybe we haven’t even thought of. How do I know what’s best?

I work with people to overcome anxiety and overwhelm, this is a huge root. Am I really on the right path? Am I doing the right activities? Am I where I’m supposed to be? Am I who I’m supposed to be?

So how do you quiet the ‘shoulds’ and find the real answers? The answer is to be able to quiet the outside noise and find the answers within. You have to connect with the part of you that knows all the answers. I call this your intuition, some call it God or Universe, inner wisdom, gut or heart. Whatever you call it, it’s the same thing.

"Out of the CEOs who scored high on their intuitive and precognitive tests, 80% of them had previously DOUBLED their company’s profits in the last five years." Vishen Lakhiani

Here are 4 things to know about connecting with your intuition:

  1. It’s a practice- it’s not do or die
  2. It’s a relationship- you cultivate it
  3. You can only have more faith in it, if you use it
  4. The answers there lead you on the best path for your life

Here’s what you can do right now to get rid of the ‘shoulds’ and connect with the best path forward for you.

  • Get quiet
  • Breathe
  • Ask yourself; What do I need to know right now?
  • Listen! To the answer
  • Continue the conversation- ask more questions, listen more

I’ll be sharing more ways to connect with your intuition in my Free workshop March 29th 2022. This is a key part of the work I do with clients, I don’t know what you’re supposed to do- but you do. You are so powerful and every answer is totally within you.


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